Revisiting Maternity Leave: A Humorous Look Back

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Discovering the Realities of 'Me Time' and Unending Parenthood

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My husband and I are blessed with three wonderful children, all born within a seven-year period. I remember returning to work early after my third maternity leave. It was quite a transitional period in my life, and in many ways, I felt like I needed a 'break' from home life and parenting to focus on my career. At the time, so much of my identity was wrapped in my career and job title, and I feared the unknown of how this third maternity leave would impact my career. So, I gradually returned to work, beginning with one day in the office and increasing to five days over a five-week period. I convinced myself that this would help the kids become accustomed to my absence. In reality, I wanted to ensure that any necessary tears were shed at home, not at the office.

Fortunately, I had childcare assistance through my in-laws. In fact, they often told us that watching our children gave them a sense of purpose and helped them stay youthful. There's something commendable about a generation that contributes to the well-being of the next. If you are a working grandparent or a retired one, please know that your help is needed and much appreciated.

To the moms who could use a hand with the kids but, for whatever reason, refrain from soliciting help, consider this: Who is benefiting from it? One caveat, though, is that unless you are paying them a nanny’s fee to help with your children exactly as you plan and map it out for them, then I recommend that you lean on their wisdom to help you raise the children well.

Looking back, the idea of returning to work early for a 'break' from home life and parenting seems somewhat silly. Don't get me wrong, women certainly need 'me time,' and prioritizing self-care is essential. However, returning to work early from maternity leave was neither 'me time' nor 'self-care.' In fact, it may have been quite the opposite.

The truth is, as a loving parent, if home is where the heart is, then the heart is always at home. Furthermore, even on a 'break,' parenting never truly stops—just ask a grandparent.

In a time when our relationships with our children face various challenges, whether it's the innocent and natural process of a child going through puberty, the continuous influence of pop culture, or more intrusive issues like attempts to ignore or revoke parental rights, we need a steadfast foundation in our relationship with our children, now more than ever.

​Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to train a child in the way they should go so that when they grow old, they will not depart from it. Teaching them kindness and how to treat others as they would like to be treated is an excellent place to begin.

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